I am an 11-year-old. I have a small group of friends but recently they have been hanging out with my ex-friend. Sometimes they laugh at me and avoid me. Should I confront them or just stay quiet?
Sue-Lynn says
Dear Lonely,
Thank you for your bravery in writing to us and sharing what has been going on. It’s tough to feel left out, but you don’t have to face this alone. Pray for wisdom and strength to approach your friend group. You can use “I” statements to share how their actions make you feel (e.g. “I feel hurt/rejected/sad when being laughed at or left out”). Then, calmly ask questions to find out what may be going on (e.g. “I value our friendship and would appreciate it if you can you tell me what’s going on”). Take this opportunity to respond and share your side of the story if needed. Remember, true friends care about your feelings and have a friendship where everyone is respected and valued😊. Above all, continue to seek Jesus, whom we have the privilege to call both our Saviour and Friend through all the seasons of our life.
